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On process design

Here are some of my considerations and thoughts I was planning to post before a I hosted the Cookbook on “Relationship Design: Choose your own adventure“. Life ensued, and it happened already. Since the write-up will take a few days…

“For you, or for me?”

Recently, I have been thinking about patterns related to codependency a lot, and it has been a topic of conversation with several friends. Codependency sounds very harsh, in this case I refer to the tendency to: overly adapt to the…

Commitments

On Monday, the 7th of December, we held a Relationship Cookbook about commitments. What is a relationship cookbook? At the moment, I call it “an experiment in participatory wisdom“, and the current incarnation of something I started 8 years ago to…

Some notes on commitment

[epistemic status: it works for me, but I am a bit preachy on this. Take with a few spoonfuls of salt] I am talking a lot about commitment, and committing, these days. I am even hosting a relationship cookbook on…

Permission

You officially have the permission: To try things. To have fun. To make mistakes. To go on adventures. To be yourself. To try to be someone else and realize it’s too much work and not worth it [I]if you haven’t…